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Old 06-03-2014, 07:32 AM
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I have quiet the decision.
My wife is traveling to Oklahoma for 7 days to see her family and bring them our 5 month old son from our home in upstate NY.
I can goto Oklahoma for 4-5 days or I can goto Virginia my home for 3-4 days.
If I goto VA I'll drive the jeep. Part of me wants to goto Oklahoma because I will surprise my wife and see my son there.
Another part knows that we are moving to Oklahoma next year so it might be better to goto Virginia because I may not get the opportunity to visit there(at least by myself) for a very very long time.
My only concern is money.
Both trips will cost the same but I know my wife would get mad at me for using money to travel to VA, but she won't give it a second thought if I use it to fly to Oklahoma.
Fair? No. But that is just her nature and after 8 years it's a battle I think I've lost.
Don't get me wrong part of me wants to travel to Oklahoma too, and if I knew I'd be going to VA alone to see friends then I would travel to Oklahoma and be done with it.
I want to go to VA by myself because I want to go out with friends without worrying about a babysitter. VA is my home and I just want to drive around and soak it in.
Which should I do?
Either trip will be fun
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Old 06-03-2014, 08:47 AM
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After 8 years of marriage you should know by now, happy wife, happy life.
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Old 06-03-2014, 09:13 AM
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I would talk to ur wife and see what her thoughts on r. If u explain to her how u told us. she might let u go. The worst she say is no.
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Old 06-03-2014, 09:43 AM
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I would be headed to VA. There will be plenty time for OK later. But like the others have said, check with wifey first.
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Thanks guys, you're all correct.
I also have learned it is easier to ask forgiveness than permission.
VA it is!!!
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