FW JK

I have a 2DR 2010 6 Speed JK Hardtop. I am running 32" tires and looking for about 2.5" of suspension lift. I have looked into the OME quite a bit but I seem to be kind of in the middle between the Standard & HD set-up. I plan on running a poison spyder brawler lite and a M8000-S up front and stock bumper in back. The OME HD for the 2DR is netting over 3" and a lot of people report that the ride is pretty harsh without the weight of the rear bumper and a substantial load. Furthermore, a lot of folks have advised me against the Standard stating that they would only recommend the Standard for a stock 2DR with a soft top. So like I said, I am unsure as to if OME is right for me. Anyone have any suggestions along with pics of a similar set-up that would get me the height I am looking for without going over the 3" mark and still giving me a good ride quality on and off the trail? This isn't a dollars and cents driven decision, I simply have an idea as to how I like a rig set up for the off-roading I do. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks!