they one on the fuel sending line is not the same style as the return line thats blue and can be removed by hand. The sending line has a red clip that can be removed but I can not figure out how to disconnect the fitting...do I need a special tool?

Steve

 

Check this vid from Teraflex:

http://youtu.be/bD4sK__OFI4

At around 10-12 minutes in it shows how to remove all lines...

 

this is for a 3.8l jeep, the 3.6l must have another style fuel line coupler, the return line is the same just the fuel sending line is not and that the one i need off to drain the tank :(

 

i think i found it, i will see if I can get it off tomorrow How to Disconnect Common Fuel Line Fittings - YouTube

 

good luck bro!! Hope you get that thing up and running again!

 

Got it running again, on 12's the fitting is not the same as others. Pull the red safety u clip out then you have a second grey u clip on the other side you will need to remove before you can disconnect the line. Also to drain the tank with out dropping it pull the ASD relay ( not fuse ) turn the key to the on position and the fuel pump will pump all of the fuel from the tank ( run a hose from the disconnected fuel line to your fuel catch or you will get gas all over your jeep )